M/40 ... Not living in SA .... But I visit to SA frequently .... I am well educated, clean, decent and cultured ..... I am new in this .... I feel I will like it ....Nothing to hide about me ... Just ask what you want to know .....I am here not to disturb anyone ..... I am here to enjoy the colorful part of life ..... Of course by mutual understanding ..... I am not white ..... Not sure if this is a barrier for you (white friends) .... I found in SA it is something different than other places .... I am not from SA .... So, please don't consider my skin color as a barrier ....... Let's try to know each other, you will find me a person same like you .... ..... Thank you.