We like straight forward talk and want to know exactly where we stand with good communication. We like the company of open minded friends and can chat about anything. We are Afrikaans but our English is not to bad lol. We have been in the lifestyle for about 7 years, married 17 years and know what we want and what the lifestyle and rules are all about. Ladies rule and respect. We dont plan or expect anything and like things to happen spontaneous. If you cant treat your woman or man with respect how can we allow you to play and swop with our own man or wife. We see the lifestyle as a hobby and love making new open minded discreet friends. We have kids and need to make arrangements when we meet up for some exciting fun. We like to try new things and dont have time for jealousy or pushy people. Right time , right place, right couple or single girl. We are game, trying anything new and live out each others fantasies. Good hygiene not negotiable and we prefer trimmed or clean shaven just like us. We dont want too many playmates and want to build a trustworthy relationship, which can lead to sometimes meet up with like minded people, playing erotic games, having a braai and if it leads to more...well that's just a bonus. We want to see a face pic to determine connection , if you dont want to please pass our profile. We will handle everything discreet. We are a fun party couple and take nothing serious, we love kissing and long foreplay. If interested give us a call, we dont bite.., just nibble !!