some very valid points here but i agree with russtrac for example ive been a member for 8months i have't met anyone yet (not from a lack of trying but also not like a dog that smells bitches on heat) so i decided to try a swingers party on saturday, party in jozi i was in cpt on business but would make attendz. The evening i called to ask if its fine to be an hour late to freshen after my flight, everything was set...i arrived home to find no power. My neibour came out and told me my house was hit by lightning the previous nite .long story short i woke up the following morning with a case of "morning glory" and remembered the party. Wanted to call and explain but thought it would sound unbelievable. I also find many people not responding or rejecting due to age, i know im young and also aware of the behaviour of young guys but not all of us are like that and all it takes is a simple conversation in 3 messages u should be able to see if u chatting to a child with no respect & only pü§§¥ on the brains or a young business man looking to unwind and have nsa sex but practising it with respect. (appology's for the long post)