Yesterday we had a good discussion about reading the profiles.
I must admit I have seen an improvement on my profile and that people understand my profile, which I really appreciate - as long as it doesn't influence the people I enjoy chatting to in the pool.
We all have our personal preferences - which is personal to us. Personal meaning the writers own preference/s.
And yes, sometimes some read it or just look at pictures and send the impersonal wink, firstly people need to know more about you. I don't read much of your personality in the "wink".
The view point I think that most singles and my apologies usually the men have is that if hubby and the wife swings - that the wife might be easy....mm now the conundrum.....it is not so. I have seen many profiles stating that "we only play as a couple" and then the disrespect of asking the wife if she would meet for coffee and so forth even some has the balls - respect - to be quite harsh and just say what they think. I have no problem with your personal views or thoughts - might not get laid in the reality - but it might seem easier in the virtual world. It could be that you are uneasy with the prospect to say or chat face to face or a lot more braver typing on the small black keyboard.
My opinion might not be heard or understood - or taken out of context.
My question would be to all the "singles" put yourself in the shoes of the hubby or even the wife, if you were married for a while or have kids , the respect and trust of your spouse or partner, how will it effect you if you have to find out that another man/woman is talking to them the way some "singles" do?
And yes I understand that I might come under fire - hopefully not violent - there is some "couples" that will be seeking "fun" behind each others back and as I mentioned own opinions. That said, be honest be respectful - respect might even get you further - communication goes a long way both here and in the personal atmosphere of your own environment.
Any comments will be appreciated - negative , positive or even disagreement.
I enjoyed both comments, and yes erotic I should be more clear - i dont want to create the wrong impression - I DO NOT WANT AN AFFAIR!! I hope that clear, I am here for the company and the chat and too perv over pics LOL.
I too give an update to the missus and tell her to have a looksy at certain profiles, but for now I understand and as I said before I do respect all profiles but expect the same from everyone.
For voyer I love to read your forum commentary and your forums - always a great read.
Anymore comments would be appreciated - seasoned or not.
mm, how to start without being kicked
I would like to bring up a subject that might be on everyone's lips, married men on the site without the missus consent.
I would love to mention that my wife knows I chat, before I get abolished.
The reason why we haven,t made any arrangements yet, is that my wife has a personal issue currently and it might last for another 6 months.
I will however chat in the chat room and yes I will perv over your pics ;) and yes might time to time send u a mail.
She is well aware of my actions, and yes if you were wondering I love to flirt and I love to talk.
I am here to enjoy myself and even have some company - chat - so please do not just assume I am here to have an affair which is absolutely rubbish. I love my wife and will not jeopardize what I have with her, except if maybe you a Jolie or Bullock or whoever is famous lol.
Secondly I do read most profiles and understand respect is a huge factor, I will make sure I understand your profile before I either send a mail or chat with you. In a case of couples I dont mind chatting to the hubby although I am straight - so again dont make assumptions that I would rather have the penis? lol
MM my mind is starting to wonder and totally of the subject.............please respect that the missus is not online, and I am not here to have an affair - clearly stated - NOT TO HAVE AN AFFAIR.
I would love to hear from the seasoned swingers and all the newbies, any thoughts - negative or positive will be appreciated.
Single men, please respect my profile also my wife - we can chat but dont get upset if i tell you she is not online!
To those who i open our private photos, she is for real and I love the way she looks.
So any married men here playing alone I just think it would be fair to all stating that you do play alone - communication is also important. Dont beat around bush - no pun intended - just be honest.
i just want some thoughts from the men and ladies about what is a good penis pic?
does the ladies enjoy the close up or would you rather enjoy the full body face and beyond?
we all know men have a penis most probably the only difference is shape size and colour?
i dont have a penis pic on my profile neither a face pic - oops
thoughts and ideas welcome - have a erected day
