I find that friendship is the cornerstone of a good relationship. It doesn't matter if that's between a married couple(yes you need to be your mate's best friend too!) or potential swing partners. I think for woman more than men, there needs to be some sort of connection, some form of intimacy before you can truly 'have her', all of her, not just some mechanical sexual encounter that leaves her or them feeling " erm not sure what that was " and the other side thinking, " when again!".
There are no rules except that when it's mutual and fun you'll sense that. There is also no such thing as a 'perfect couple' or 'ideal couple'. I've met some people who all want this and that and not this way and well, lets just say the only swing encounter they will have is on the video they watch. I don't think anybody can profess to be an authority on sexual behaviour. I want a woman that can moan, groan and grunt or gag. On the other hand even she wanted to scream like a banshee, she couldn't always do it, depends on where and who is about. Then again, you meet a couple and they all just what you want but the woman is a 'screamer'. Do you give her up or do you make sure she's got something to chomp down on to keep the decibels down!
Personally I like that we've stuck with the same couples. We are all friends. We've come to know what each person prefers, what they like and when. It keeps us safe and going bareback isn't an issue. I'm not sure I'd be comfortable with a night here at this club and evening there at that ressort. I suppose if you're single or just a couple you do as you please. However once you've got kids, it changes your limits.
Couldn't agree more. Two guys inseminating the same pussy in quick succession has got to be far more erotic than one man, one set of tools being shared by two woman.
Hello and thank you both!
@Pussinboots1, you did say it correctly. At the same time, they often say, " bienvenue chez nous ". ;-)
The sight of the other guy French kissing her, then guiding her like a moth to a flame to his crotch, watching her mouth close over his cock, watching him let her suck before he holds her head and strokes her mouth gave me a strong erection. Watching him fuck her, g-string pulled to one side, sinking it deep and ejaculating inside her, then holding it in, then slowly pulling out, then putting it into her mouth while her legs stay apart and watching the white sticky stuff trickle out was something that fascinated me totally. I'm completely turned on by watching, before actually joining in. On our first occasion, I was only aware of the level of excitement when I felt his wife squeezing my balls and sip my ejaculation while I stared across at the other other couch. A few years on and the feeling hasn't changed. At work I use a headset during my meetings. Now fancy receiving a call from wyfie, while she's been lured to Stephane's apartment over lunch. Jean or Eric or both join in. They leave the phone line open so I can hear here....moaning, groaning, grunting, gagging.....It is a very horny way to live!
Hello all,
We're a Saffa couple living in west France. Over here more than ten years now. Got into the swing scene here quite by accident but it's now been five years since that first time and it's become addictive. We're now four couples in a closed group. I just joined the web site out of curiosity, share experiences and just meet people. Who knows, next time we're in SA or you're in France......I never once thought of this while I lived in SA...I'm delighted to see that it's something thats 'popular' even if discreetly so.
Cheers/O
