I've been on this site before...and yes,  I met someone on here, but things got complicated One of the reasons that I'm back on this site is to find friends to chat with and be able to have a decent conversation.  It’s nice to have a circle of friends with similar interests. Some of us are here for other reasons and some are here for fun and naughty....I love meeting new people and having a nice social time with them. If the chemistry is there, then who knows? But to me sex is not so important when I meet someone for the first a decent woman (so I've been told, lol), unique, romantic, and honest and fun to be with. Life can’t be serious all time, you have to make time to have some world out there is full of surprizes, I’m in my forties, and although this is probably not a true dating site, I'm willing to give it a of the things in life I don’t like is when someone that you care for and that you've been trying to help by making a difference in their life, hurts you...with intent. I’m not interested in how you look,(I'm a big girl) if you are poor or rich, etc. Of importance to me is the YOU inside YOU. I’m not here to change people, but I would like to  make a difference in someone's and trust is very important to me... without that you can’t built any form of relationship even one of friendship.I don’t mind if we meet for coffee or go out to dinner, but let’s chat and get know each other before the next step.