I don't promise to forget the mystery, but I know I'll have a marvelous time.

Curious about lots of things including a way to make contact. So if you have a n#u$m!ber, a %p(in), M@!$l or anything like that, send it to me in a message and who knows, maybe we can solve some mysteries together! 

Yes I am a basic member. Can't send many messages and can't say hello privately on chat. Because of this I will not reply to winks or messages that doesn't say much. If you can't grab my attention with an opening line, you probably won't with a second, third, fourth... It's also no use to send me your X-Rated pics and albums, because the site prevents me from seeing it unless I upgrade. 

I'm new here and new to swinging but I'm not naive or desperate. I am 38 and like older men between 40 and 48, but maybe also couples and bi women... the mystery is still unsolved. I do know that I currently prefer men. I'm here to meet people that I get along with and prefer so here is a checklist to see if you qualify:

I WILL NOT REPLY IF YOU...

☆ are a man younger than 40, or a woman younger than 35.

☆ are a man older than 48, or a woman older than 40.

☆ are in this age group and still live with your parents or don't have a job (any job will do).

☆ are any other race than white.

☆ are disrespectful in any way. I'm not desperate or inappropriately eager to jump into bed with anyone and if you expect me to do that then rather pass me by.

☆ can't hold a decent conversation or form proper sentences.

☆ send me a wink or any system generated message, you will be ignored. I put effort into my message here and expect the same from potential friends.

☆ live far away from PE, which is where I live and work (I travel to EL often). 

☆ can't host if it comes down to entertainment that isn't suitable for a restaurant. I live with a roommate so not easy to host. 

☆ aren't prepared to share a face photo. I like to know who I chat to because physical attraction is important, so please be prepared to send me a face photo as soon as I reply or within a short time thereafter.

Still here? Still reading? Then I'm impressed and you just scored your first brownie point.

Next brownie point will be if you spark my attention with your mind...