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megannaidoo69
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 40
0 km · Port Elizabeth

About

I am kind of boring to those that don't like straight talkers. 
I'm here for one reason one reason only. FUN!!!

If you don't know how to treat a lady or even be a Man to a lady then please don't contact me. I enjoy good food(Seafood), I love good music. I find peace in travelling spending my time in quiet environments. I am a big soccer fan, I love watching Cricket Rugby. I live good Wine (Kononkop) And I love clean fun.

I'm not the kind of girl who will jump in bed with different Men although I'm not looking for a Relationship but I would love to have that 1 Fun loving person with a high Sex drive. If you the one, hit me Up. And I love going out to a club once in a blue moon.

You know your five senses (Sight. Hearing. Touch. Smell. Taste.) but, do you know how they affect your sex life? What are the five senses of Sex that can make Sex - sexy or boring? Sex should be a total body experience.

We are well accustomed with the five senses we use in our daily lives. However, how well do you use them, when it cums to a relationship, and especially in bed that Sex is not just a roll in the hay!

At the start of an intimate romantic relationship, we cannot help but use all of our senses, because we can never get enough of our sexy new lover the sight of them; the sound of their voice or their intoxicating smell. As time goes by, the experiences of the five senses may slowly diminish, while making love. What starts off as a pleasurable activity involving all of the five senses, usually ends up with just one sense - the sense of touch - the mere act of penetration. But, there are FIVE senses of lovemaking and to actually enjoy anything in life, we need to look for ways to stimulate ALL of these senses - be it when it cums to eating dessert or making love.

When we do not really experience the pleasure of Sex through all our senses, Sex can start to get more frustrating, especially when having Sex involving weak orgasms and limp members. And, the chances are that one or both partners may start getting attracted to other people who can excite all their senses better.

So, how do we use our five senses to make Sex feel sexier.

There are many positions we can use, while having Sex. However, simply reigniting our five senses, while having Sex, thereby making love (and fucking) more exciting, all over again!

SIGHT
Can you recollect the last time you had Sex? Can you recall the things that visually excited you? Almost always, couples ignore the sense of sight and do not bother trying to excite each other visually.

To excite your partner visually, your first goal should be to look your best. Work out every day and try to get the dream physique you have always wanted. When you look like your own Perfect 10, your partner cannot but help be awed by your naked beauty. Dress up in your good looking and well fitting underwear that accentuates your body and its assets and avoid wearing baggy clothes that make you appear unattractive. Make an effort!

Men are more visual that woman men look at the parts, while woman see the person!

Candles or lampshades that illuminate the bedroom with a soft, yellow glow, will make naked bodies look more radiant and beautiful. Play with the lights, while making love and rearrange things so it feels more cozy and yet sexy. And, for some adventurous partners, if you want it heighten the pleasure even more, watch some porn together, while having Sex or place a full length mirror horizontally, a few inches away from the bed. By including just these two aspects, it will feel like there is more than the two of you having Sex, which can be a much bigger turn on.

HEARING
The sense of hearing is one of the stronger stimulants that can bring sexy, back into bed. Whispering in a soft, husky (bedroom) voice and talking dirty with each other and discussing about each others fantasies. Simply create a few sexual scenarios - like having Sex on the beach or at a party. And, if that does not help, involve role plays in your fantasies, while having Sex.

Listen to mood music or create a playlist of songs that make you feel more sexy; especially, if you have heard them often together. As long as the sounds you hear turn you on, it will always make Sex a lot sexier.

TOUCH
When you were first dating your partner, even a light sensual graze of skin would turn you on. But, now that you have become accustomed to your lovers touch, it could be more difficult to enjoy that sense, while having Sex. Make the sense of touch feel more adventurous by making out - touching each other discreetly - in public.

And, when in bed, extend foreplay by at least ten minutes. Extending foreplay gives stronger erections and better orgasms. Touch each others erogenous zones before penetrating and wear soft cotton or sheer fabrics, so your body feels better to touch even with the clothes on. Crisp linen or satin sheets should also do the trick!

Nibble your lovers ear lobes or bite and spank each other if that helps you experience Better Sex. To heighten the sense of touch to an all new high, have Sex in different places - it can give you a whole new sexual experience.

Touch is the only reciprocal sense share this sense!

SMELL
Fragrances and perfumes can heighten the pleasure of Sex by a large extent. Use scented candles and body perfume before you have Sex. Try to have a shower and freshen up, before having Sex too. While the natural body fragrances can be a turn on for your partner, an overdose of body odour never is. Have good hygiene habits and smell good down there. At times, use fragrant massage oils to massage each other for a few minutes, before having Sex - to smell great and turn each other on.

Did you know that the smell of baby powder increases blood flow to a womans vagina? Dust your linen with this erotic powder to stimulate the olfactory senses.

TASTE
Use aphrodisiacs, while having Sex, as they can delay penetration and increase sexual foreplay at the same time. Additionally, you can also use flavoured condoms, lip gloss and lubes to make everything about Sex feel more tasteful. This, is especially important when going down on each other You would not want any bad experiences down under to ruin your senses, while making love.

Woman have a more developed sense of taste than men and associate pleasant flavours with experiences, especially sensual ones. Sex and eating have a very close connotation. Chocolate, oysters, watermelon, avos, strawberries etc.

Drinking a few glasses of alcohol, while having Sex, can numb the senses too, to some extent and contradictory to what we may think, actually heighten the pleasure - making Sex feel more enjoyable.

Experiencing Sex through our senses can improve the pleasure-act and make it more satisfactory and fun. If you really want to go all out and lose yourself in passionate lovemaking, try Tantric Sex (another topic to discuss) and this will enhance all your five senses and connect both of you emotionally as well. And, lets not forget the mind blowing out of the world orgasms Tantric Sex can give you!

LETS PUT THE SIZZLE BACK INTO SEX!

SENSE SEX!

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Age: 18 - 100
Distance: 500 km