So a bit of an update as we haven't spent much time here over the last 2 years as my wife first went through the dreaded menopause and then had a huge heart attack.

So for now I, the hubby is browsing around alone, with her permission.

Firstly, if you dont have a profile photo, dont send a friend request. If you want to chat, have a photo ready.

We have been in the lifestyle for about 12 years and know what we want and what not. we enjoy chatting to people and getting to know them better but never make promises that it will go further unless there is a connection. at the end of the day we might just become good friends without any play, and we have lots of those friends.

I, the hubby, is just your average guy of 85kg, you will see in any shopping center, shave my head and wear glasses. I am oral bi, but only with someone i am extremely comfy with as it just makes the whole experience so much more relaxed as you don't have to watch where you touching or not, but will never ever just do it if the other person is not cumfy with it. My wife is slightly plumpy with a roll or 2 but i adore her just the way she is and have been married for 34 years. She is for sure very Bi as well.

Well that's it in a nutshell. If you want to know more then lets chat.