Sensual, respect given, expect the same, play alone. Partner not interested in intimacy of any kind.( Am aware of the weirdos out there,not one of them,so please don't make my issues yours. I, sure as hell am not going to make yours mine! Don't judge me and I won't you. All here to live out some fantasy or enjoy some sort of lifestyle.

I hold back allow others to take lead at first but enjoy interaction not just one-sided action, clean expect the same,like to clean up before. Meet and greet good but not into time wasters and endless chatting....

Should we message one another and the other party/parties not interested let's just have good manners and say thanks for interest ,but no thanks. Manners cost nothing....

If a white/ Caucasian lady, see age group( sorry just  preference no offence)finds herself in a similar situation and wishes to partner with someone to feel more comfortable in lifestyle lets meet & see if we can possibly  accommodate each other and lay down some ground rules....