Thanks for checking out my profile! 

So, I'm new to all of this... I'm married but my wife doesn't know that I'm interested in this lifestyle. So I guess I'd like to suss things out on my own, get a sense of how I feel about it before making any suggestions to her. With that said: discretion is an absolute must, I don't do and I'm not here simply looking for a quick and easy "pomp"- I prefer to get to know people, establish some level of trust and friendship before going any further.