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Where has common decency gone? Good old fashioned manners? Like when someone says good morning, you greet them back. Or if someone voices an opinion you don't agree with, you can actually agree to disagree. Or even when someone sends you a message, you reply, you know, that rudimentary stuff most our parents taught us when we were kids.
So we all know there is a plethora of diffrent personalities out there, especially in the LS, the reality of the matter is, when chatting to new potential playmates, there is a real chance that not everyone will find the other person sexually attractive. It is what it is, it is all part of the game.
Now here is where my pet peeves steps in:
When you still in the "getting-to-know each other" phase, you know, when you are still sending a few messages back and forth, where everyone is still trying to get a better feel for each other, should you find yourself in the situation where you do not find any chemistry, don't be a dick about it, man the hell up! Politely say to the person/other couple, "sorry guys, not feeling a connection here" and everyone can go their merry way, it's that simple. Don't just stop replying to messages, mid chat and ignore or ghost the other party, not only is that annoying AF, but that's just plain rude! Remember, it's not only about what YOU want out of the experience, there is another couple/single involved in the equation as well, and it's also about what they want from the experience. The challenge of course is to find the happy sexual equipoise, but that's a whole different discussion for another day.
You don't feel any chemistry, no problem, it's bound to happen somewhere along the line, but be open and honest about it, be polite and simply bow out respectfully. Don't waste the other people's time, or act like a chop. Again, it's actually that simple.
You make initial contact and want to see a face pic of the other couple/person, you post one 1st, then ask for one, not the other way around. Don't get your panties in a bunch when the other party does not immediately jump at your demand to share a pic, although you haven't shared one yourself. Some people (us included) are reluctant to just share face pics after a simple "hallo, how you guys doing?", and for a very good reason, I might add. I'm in no way or form trying to mislead you in any way, I just want to get to know you first a bit. Again, it's not only about YOU.
You want to share sexy pics, thats super!! But ask whether the other couple/person is comfortable with sharing pics first. Some people don't like sharing sexy pics untill they've met you in person. Others again want to get to know you a little first, whatever the reason may be is actually totally irrelevant. Don't just sommer send a bunch of pics, then get all tweezer-lipped if the other party does not reciprocate. Again, it's not only about what YOU want, it's about what everyone is comfortable with.
You send someone a message, for Pete's sake, people have jobs, families, a life outside of the lifestyle, it is not always possible for them to answer a message immediately. Don't get miffed-out when people dare not drop everything they are doing, at that very minute, just to reply to your message. Yet again, it's not all about YOU.
So in short, don't be that guy, nobody likes that guy. Be polite, be considerate towards the other people/person you are interacting with. Act like a grown-up, be honest with people and respect their time, as much as you wish them to respect yours. Remember one thing, the other party/person you are interacting with, owes you ZIP, ZERO, NIKS, NADA, so try cut them some slack. Instead of demanding and insisting on things being done your way, perhaps consider finding some mutual grounds and who knows, your success rate, might just increase exponentially.
Ok rant over!
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Well sayd
New at this - feelers out....
Looking to meet like minded people, would also like to build friendship's. Please guy's I am not gay so don't try to convert me. The aim is to have fun and explore all of what your girl will let me.
i am open for what ever she wants.
Don't scare me and spoil a good time as I would love to continue this exciting times.