In a poly/open marriage currently looking to build a long-term FWB relationship with a like-minded straight male. Need to have a real connection before anything physical develops. 

Have played more casually before, now looking for another type of turn on. I want to be able to immerse in you for fixed, regular periods of time. I'm not keen to sneak around, so only interested in singles or others in open relationships.

If you cannot stimulate me intellectually, there'll be no hope for anything physical. Don't message me unless you're willing to be authentic and put some effort into showing me where a connection could spark from.