Read this before contacting me - regarding what i am looking for

I am happily married, living in Ballito, but looking for guys and on rare occasions, couples to have fun with - do not cross the racial barrier (white only, pls respect that) looking for fit guys, similar age or slightly younger.... guys with a sense of humour always get my attention and guys who can take the lead are sexy.

Like when people are respectful and do not enjoy guys who are rude.