UPDATE: I'm now living in the UK, but visiting back on 17 Nov, for 2 months....my friend with benefits, has a profile for us both: 2fordayfun, so contact him to arrange things.

Lets start again.......I was put off by the number of assholes on here, and being naïve, accepted toooo many friends, so all have been deleted, sorry to the nice ones. Since then, only "friends" will be accepted, those I've chatted to a bit, viewed a FULL profile and decided they're cool.....so to pass the test, DO NOT send, I'd like to know more, or how much I'd love your dick, and no, I don't fuck on first dates, meet in dodgy places or shag in car parks with someone I have just met, send me a decent caring email with plenty info, and you'll stand a chance. ( I have the pussy --- I make the rules)

If you're sincerely interested, get to know me, invite me for coffee / lunch or dinner, without any expectations, and we take it from there......and from there I mean, you should 1) Be able to come to my area to meet, in your own car, 2) Have your own venue (not hotels or cars) for us to enjoy erotic times. 3) Be able to meet during the day.

I'm a single Mom, who happens to be highly sexed and enjoys sexual adventure in all it's variety. I do have some experience and if it's a couple seeking a couple, I do have a male friend (one with big benefits), however you would call me bi-friendly, ie: if a woman pleasures me, I doubt if I'll be able to return the favour..sorry.

Ideally, I'd like to meet a single well groomed male around my age, that is confident, comfortable in life and looking for a lady friend to share some fun times together, don't run,,,,,,I'm not looking for a husband, been single way too long to complicate things now, but would enjoy being taken to a movie, out for dinner now and again, or possibly even joining you at a friends social braai !!

Oh and one more thing, I've also learnt how to hit the ignore button for emails not following at least the above basic guidelines. Look forward to hearing from all the sincere genuine people out there .xxx J