I am a year out of a long-term committed relationship and some familial loss. I am not looking for any kind of serious emotional attachment, I am on a mission of fun.  I cannot guarantee that I will never discuss anything about what I am going through, but that will depend on the person.  I'm doing me.  Thank you very much.

#I share the above in order to provide context - not to garner your pity.  Please avoid starting any messages with "I'm sorry for your loss".  I am looking toward the future, not wallowing in the past.  That is not the purpose of my presence here.

I'm not a robot, like a lot of women, sex for me starts in the mind.  So, I am not interested in any type of "wham bam thank you mam" scenario.  I like good conversation, intellectual stimulation, and feeling flattered and pampered.  

My photos will be private, but if you use the right approach (non-generic message/no dick pic) I'm happy to share, meet for drinks and make a night of it.

PS. I'm a smoker - if that is a problem - no need to get in touch.

PPS.  Seriously - Please don't inundate me with generic/lazy messages and invites to dick pic albums.  I'm not even going to politely say thanks, but no thanks anymore.  Check my profile, make sure you read through the whole thing, and then give me your best literary effort, otherwise, it is very unlikely that I am going to respond.  In fact, if I get any lazy messages, simply block you.  Kindly put pen to paper using the full English language - I really find messages full of text abbreviations juvenile.  

PPPS.  If you are married or involved, - please move on.  Swiftly and quietly.  I have no interest in participating in the wrecking of lives.  Life, on this planet, as a woman is tough enough, without us girls fucking each over as well.  I'm a feminist - deal with it. I also don't enjoy my free time being dictated to by your wife or girlfriend. Spontaneity is a thing....

Lastly - my age and distance preferences are set in stone.  I have no interest in getting into a situation if you don't live within approx 30 min of me.  This includes gentlemen who travel to Gauteng on a regular basis - it still doesn't work for me.  I have no interest in fitting my schedule around your work trips.

If you have made it this far - thank you for making the effort.  If you check all the boxes - hope to hear from you soon.