We have experimented some 2 years ago and have taken a break and are feeling the waters gently again.

We are in this together and we only play when we are both together. As this is something very much on the side, we would like to keep it discreet as our family and social circle is very conservative.

We are not into full swing or anything hardcore. It is very important to us that everyone involved is comfortable and that we have a clear discussion upfront of everyone’s limits and expectations. For us it is also about the interaction and not just the playing part. Being watched is very special to us and watching another couple is really fun for us. As a couple we like to meet on neutral ground and a setting that makes it easy to socialise. At an action bar or coffee shop there is no pressure on anyone if we feel that there is no intellectual and sexual connection, so we like to meet up initially for a quick drink or coffee. This means we don’t always have to end up doing something sexual if everyone isn’t in the mood. We also find it is very important that C (she) and the lady connect as they need to be comfortable with each other, as the girls are always in charge. We are very comfortable in our relationship, enjoying the play part of swinging and are not jealous or immature. This we will expect from other couples we meet.

Please send us a short introduction of yourselves and perhaps if you are interested we can then meet for a quick cup of coffee or drink.