Pretty relaxed and open minded guy here...looking to explore what's out there...

Don't have a lot of expectations, just:

Honesty - I don't need to know the WHOLE story, but if you have a homicidal wife that's waiting for me in the next room it's sort of important - life is short

Respect - you can change your mind, just say so - there's no pressure - I'm not here for a committed relationship, but a regular fuck-, suck-, rim-, fist-buddy will be great :-)

And lastly discretion - I sort of expect it and will reciprocate - if you do need to tell somebody, I normally find a priest or your friendly psychiatrist works...friends not so much...

Let the games begin :-D