Hi all, this is our first forum post.... here it goes!

Warning: This is a boring and unsexy post, but I'm not sure if any others have thought about this?

Mrs and I have a play session, usually involving a bull and sometimes a couple, about 4 or 6 times a year. We are quite over the club scene and prefer more intimate, private meets. We prefer not to play at home, so we always rent a nice, classy Airbnb or 5 star hotel. We find that being somewhere fancy and classy adds to the excitement of a play session.

Now, we are not short on cash or anything, also far from being frugal, but looking back, I find that our secret, naughty hobby has been a bit pricey. When you include fine dining, alcohol, new lingerie, toys and other playtime necessities to the hotel and travelling costs, it adds up to quite an expensive weekend. Its never mattered before, but for some reason, whilst arranging our next playdate, it just dawned on me what we spend for a weekend of sexy fun.

My question is, is it at all appropriate for swingers to split some of the costs with a bull or couple, with whom they'll be paying with? If so, how does one go about raising the subject?

Looking forward to hearing some opinions on this matter... Have a lovely day!