Sincerity and honesty are top on the list for me. So if you have read my profile and are really present to what I hold so high then you must be in the know and without a doubt that I do not entertain the idea of having fun with someone that is with someone that does not know. I was down that road married for 15 years.... like two lost souls swimming in a fish bowl year after year. I set us free! Having done that I will not and never will tip toe in dark shadows.... be the other woman.... Why would I want to? Each of us will be faced with that special day... the day that we move on from this world.... There are only two things that can happen here....and most humans never think of this...We die scared and full of regrets or we die in serenity feeling fulfilled!!! and of coarse death is also the biggest lie we simply move on to another world... a world where our choices there are determined by our actions here in this life in this world. It's very simple. If you mail me and you fall under the bullshitters category I will know I have a very fine tuned ESP so do not chance it. I am friendly, gentle, loving and petite...just like a very small package of dynamite... I can write all the flowery words here about how wonderful I am but the truth is that the real person is found in the essence the person carries. Would like to make new friends and socialize, very sweet and simple. Should anything develop from a sincere friendship and friendships take time may I add... then know I am open minded just like you are.... for it has nothing to do with the do's and the dont's ... Because if a sincere friendship is formed then preferences do not exist... there is simply Flow. "Do not push the river, let it flow" I wonder if there is anybody out there who can absorb this simplistic way of being....... I write this caption below so I can simply copy and past it to all the married men who think I would be delighted to be dodging around with them as their dark secret... the kind who will still mail me because they didn't take the time to read my profile... "You did not read my profile I see... so sad!"......

A while ago I went to the SPCA to give a dog a home, I made the effort to find out about the dog I wanted to choose... where he came from... what kind of environment he was used to and felt comfy in... I needed to know this because I would like that dog to feel welcome and comfortable with me.... i needed to know this to find out if that dog suited who I am too. I loved that dog enough to take the time to find out about him and I loved me enough to find out if I would be okay with the kind of lifestyle the dog was used to.

I did this for a dog! and I did it for me!

It's not having what you want... it's wanting what you've got.... and when you do not want what you have got at least have the balls to say so!

Sadly it seems 98% of people do not read profiles, a smart elimination process I have here. If I don't respond to you it's because you never took the time to read my profile so how could you take the time and dedication for the finer details on anything else?