Hi there! Thanks for stopping by and checking out our profile. Please be so kind as to read our complete bio before sending a message or leaving a comment. This is important, for both you and us.

We are a happily married couple in our 40’s, and still very much in love. We believe strongly in open communication and most of all honesty. With that being said…should you be married or in a relationship and playing without consent, pretty please scroll by. We will NOT tolerate or be part of adultery and disloyalty. Still with us? Great! 

We are here to meet people, have fun and hopefully build long term friendships with like-minded people. Our ideal would be to find a male play date around our age to engage in some play time with the Mrs., and occasionally with Mr. joining in or just watching. Also, someone that would want to commit to a long-term relationship with us. We are not ruling out couples and making friends. Tall order, right? Yea we know…but we know what we want, and we are VERY careful who we let into our relationship.

Hubby is NOT a cuck, neither are we into humiliation or punishment. Mrs. also does not need a DADDY. We’re all about FUN, laughter and light hearted interaction, and some kinky stuff! 

We also get a lot of messages from young men, stating “I am mature for my age” etc. We believe you, the thing is…. We have a son in his 20’s. And while we are sure your package is great, and you have the stamina of a desert camel. It is really going to be very awkward and weird. We feel flattered, really, we do…and hope you understand?  

Personal safety in today’s age and era is a BIG thing and something of a concern. We would like to first meet in a public space for a friendly meet & greet. There will be no meeting arranged if either one of us is not able to speak on the phone or video chat to see if you are the real deal. 

We keep fit, and try and maintain a healthy balanced life. Extremely big on personal hygiene. We are both nonsmokers, and really not big on drinking. Hubby will have a few (2 at most) whiskeys or wines on social occasions, but hardly more. 

Both of us have full-time jobs, and still have to deal with everyday life. So, we won’t waste time on empty profiles (meaning no profile photo or media) or unverified people. We will also not reply to messages reading, “Dave, 32” and then BAM…. dick pic. We want to meet YOU, not your dick. So, if we open your profile and there is just an abundance of dick pics and videos, we are unfortunately going to give you a pass. If we do not reply immediately, or engage or respond, please don’t take it personally. We don’t monitor messages 24/7

Now, physical appearance. Not going to lie, you will need to have something going for you. Not looking for Adonis, but physical attraction from both sides is a must. If you do not look like your photo's, you will buy us drinks until you do.

If you are a decent human being with a good sense of humor, and want to have a great time, and meet all of the above criteria. We are soooo looking forward to playtime with you. Send us a message here, (although not gold member so limited messaging)

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