My profile seems to be a work in progress. The more profiles I view, the more insight I gain.

Very ordinary man. Little shy. I regret the fact that I've never really lived and took chances. I have only watched other have excitement from a distance. Will this change everything? I dunno. Probably not. But I'll just see. Maybe ...

I am a gentleman AND a gentle man .... & I pride myself on that. Respect is a given to me

I know that the idea is extremely hard to fathom, but gents are picky too ... at least, I am. I'm not as much interested in your body as I am in who you are. There are heaps of sexy women out there, but there are not as many who are sensual. Sensuality comes from within .... and that gets me interested. You don't owe me anything, and I certainly don't owe you squat. I ALWAYS treat others with respect. Is it too much to ask if i request the same in return?

I don't mind engaging with couples, as long as they understand that I am STRAIGHT and not in the least bi-curious.

It is absolutely amazing the proposals one get. I'm at the age where shagging everything that moves has long passed by. A sensual lady gets my little motor running. If you're expecting "assets" out of the ordinary, then pass. I consider myself to be average. If you think you can get me to like you just cause you have a great body, then pass. If you have sensuality that comes from within, irrespective of your body shape ... hell yeah, I'd love to talk to you. Don't bank on your body or looks to get me interested. You might be seriously disappointed to find out that a body alone cannot get a man to like you

To the men, if you are bi, bi-curious or gay, just go .... do whatever you do somewhere else. Don't wanna know you. Don't wanna talk to you. Do not wanna be friends wlith you. Just pass. This is one barrier I will most definitely not cross. Just get out of my sight please.

If I browse your profile it does not mean that I am necessarily interested. If you are a man I am most definitely not interested, and probably landed on your profile by accident or you said something which made me curious to see what the self rightous asshole looks like. If you are a lady or couple (straight male) I might be interested. I normally read what people have to say on their profiles, and I respect their wishes. I might not agree ... but respect is not negotiable.

My dear late mother always said .... If you cannot say anything good, rather keep your verbal diarrhea to yourself.

Extremely interesting thing about couples looking for a man to do mfm. "No married men" lol One would expect them to rather engage a married man as the chances of respect for the relationship of the couple just increases. Just saying. I might be wrong, but that is how I see it.

Here is another idea which might be hard to fathom .... I am not desperate. If I communicate with you it means that I am very interested, but I will not pester you. If you do not reply, I accept and respect that the interest is not mutual. I have seen my fair share of naked women, and I'd much rather see your face or full body pic (dressed) in order to make an assessment. If you expect me to post or send you pics of my genitals .... ain't gonna happen. If there is no interest in me as a person .... well, sorry .... pass.

I am multidimensional, and there are other things in life which sparks my interest. I am passionate about the things I choose to get involved in.

As jy soete Afrikaans met my wil praat .... dit sal sommer bakgat wees.