I want to give myself a day or two to see how I feel about it. I don't know of ANY place that allows single guys - I just wann go somewhere - farm/bush/veld and just see if I would enoy it - I don't wanna worry what will happen is omeone "catches" me - and I wanna do where I can just be myself
Inbox me and I will give you directions
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Thumper
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 77
0 km · Northwold
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This event has affected me all day.
Really tragic but it seems there was always the potential for violence in his life.
Such a pity that something was not done earlier when the trend became apparent.
As a father of a beautiful lady I am devastated and feel crushed and have tremendous sympathy for her parents, and his.
"Suspected burglar" shot 4 times in the head and another shot,???? you believe that you also believe in father christmas and the virgin birth.
Not that he is my "Guru" (I don't bow and scrape to any mortal man), but I do enjoy reading and watching the many videos on "You Tube" of the late Christopher Hitchens, if only because he articulates his views on the subject in a way I am unable to do.
Anyone interested in pursuing the subject of 'freeing oneself from the effects of a religious upbringing', can do worse than watch a few of his videos. Google them for free. !
@ PIB1The term "soulmate" is usually expressed in a positive, loving, uplifting context isn't it?
What about a negative type "soulmate" ? Is there such a thing?
Many people battle through a long, debilitating, depressing, destructive (married?) existence with a suppressive partner, for whatever misguided reason. Would that type of partner also be considered a "soulmate"?
Quote by Thumper
"If thy Morals make thee dreary, depend upon it, they are wrong.
I do not say give them up, for they may be all thou hast,
but conceal them like a vice, lest they should spoil the lives of better and simpler people."
-Robert Louis Stevenson
This full quote as above appears on page 120 of RLS Book "Across the Plains"
It is my view that we, as spiritual beings, are all here as one of multiple incarnations, to interact with our fellow inhabitants at every level, family, business, social, recreational whatever, and to enjoy certain expriences which WE have chosen to pursue in this lifetime.
They may include being a motor racing driver, pilot, skydiver, mountaineer, medical worker in outer mongolia, or even a swinger or dogger, yes. An example would be for a religious parent to prevent their kid from learning the guitar because guitar players play in bands and bands play in hotels and people drink liquor in hotels and ppl who drink liquor in hotels become alcaholics and....... and ......... And all the kid wanted to do is learn to play the guitar.
When these chosen paths & experiences clash with the man-made rules and regulations (thou shalt nots....) of the many religions on this planet, it causes tremendous conflict in our beings and unless cleared, will persist through life, and through transition only to be clinging on into our next incarnation.
It is only when one of the opposing forces gives way to the other that we can move on with the life we intended for ourselves on this earth. Each individual has to chose which force will give way to the other.
After a very religious (well meaning) upbringing I managed to extricate myself from the indoctrination and conciously and steadfastly rejected all forms of earthly religion, for the fakes they are, more than 30 years ago, AND PROMPTLY STARTED LIVING!
The benefit to me has exceeded those of a thousand hollow so-called promised blessings sprouted from pulpits every Sunday. I have not regretted my decision for a second.
So, regarding the topic; yes swinging, dogging, playing guitar or bagpipes and all those enjoyable passtimes and pleasures can definitely not be reconciled with religion with all their "thou shalt nots..". Dont even try. Chose.
:angel:
:jagsatwork:
They may include being a motor racing driver, pilot, skydiver, mountaineer, medical worker in outer mongolia, or even a swinger or dogger, yes. An example would be for a religious parent to prevent their kid from learning the guitar because guitar players play in bands and bands play in hotels and people drink liquor in hotels and ppl who drink liquor in hotels become alcaholics and....... and ......... And all the kid wanted to do is learn to play the guitar.
When these chosen paths & experiences clash with the man-made rules and regulations (thou shalt nots....) of the many religions on this planet, it causes tremendous conflict in our beings and unless cleared, will persist through life, and through transition only to be clinging on into our next incarnation.
It is only when one of the opposing forces gives way to the other that we can move on with the life we intended for ourselves on this earth. Each individual has to chose which force will give way to the other.
After a very religious (well meaning) upbringing I managed to extricate myself from the indoctrination and conciously and steadfastly rejected all forms of earthly religion, for the fakes they are, more than 30 years ago, AND PROMPTLY STARTED LIVING!
The benefit to me has exceeded those of a thousand hollow so-called promised blessings sprouted from pulpits every Sunday. I have not regretted my decision for a second.
So, regarding the topic; yes swinging, dogging, playing guitar or bagpipes and all those enjoyable passtimes and pleasures can definitely not be reconciled with religion with all their "thou shalt nots..". Dont even try. Chose.
:angel:
:jagsatwork: Quote by willysa
Was at Fairy Glenn Nature reserve today.
Great place to have some fun in the wild. Just not allot of guys that looked like they would join in.
It is very quiet on week days, seems like a good time to go there.
Willysa I was there earlier in the week.
Do you mean the parking on the western side?
Or where do you say is ideal?
Did not bother to go into the park due to the few (1) car parked there.
Quote by rodeo_man
Are we the only couple interested in this in the East, so much chat and no action! Will be interested in hearing if anyone has had any fun recently for real. We have visited the Reitvlei dam and the Germiston lakes recently and had no viewers for us, also found no one busy, not that it stopped us. We also had some fun not too long ago at a east rand side hotel sauna, there we did get a viewer on our action. Cum on folks, are you all too old, too full chat and no action or what? We especially interested in couples watching and being watched, but with the right guy, who knows......
Be alert at Rietvlei.
The rangers are on to the doggers
Inside info
Quote by BORISKY
hi there
this dogging is a wait game,i have sat in my car day after day before finding a couple to perve out on.
Brakpan dam is about the only dogging spot left,as most are too dangerous,but im always prowling and looking for action!!!
xxx
To the left or to the right at Brakpan Dam?
is that 85% of the dogging stories in this forum are figments of the authors fertile imagination. I also beleive that "dogging" is not another name for sausage fests. Dogging is the act of watching couples being sexy in vehicles or in the parks etc. and the couples knowing you are watching. Yes, sometimes you are asked to participate by giving a flash or something. Dogging is not 5 or 6 guys wanking together, thats called "5 or 6 guys wanking together" .
Quote by joubertbotha
Hi guys i want to take my wife to strand beach and fuck her infront of a couple of guys jerking off. Any advise on the exact location and a time of a day that will fit everyone the best? Im looking at taking her there either tommorrow or the 28/29 daytime.
This will stricktly be a no touch only watch session, the wife will also not allow pics/vids to be taken, but i would actually like it if you guys can take pics/vids, just do it silently and don't let her see. Then please post them on imagefap or newbienudes with subject "young couple fucking on strand beach".
Ps she doesn't know im posting this add so no reference to the add please!
I hope i get some takers!
Love to be there but only get to the Cape from 9th to 13th Jan. let us know if you organise something similar in Secunda.
