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TheVoyeur
Over 90 days ago
Straight White/Caucasian Male, 54
0 km · Western Cape

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My best friend, and neighbour from the age of 2 and I were very close.

In first year of High school he got hold of a porn movie from his brother (they were illegal back then).

We are in his family TV room with blankets covering any signs of arousal.

He suddenly pulls his blanket off and says "look".

Then he asks me to do the same.

After watching more of each other than the movie for a while he suggests we try stroke each other.

A mind blowing experience that lead to more play and experimenting for the physical pleasure.

Then girlfriends came into our lives and the play stopped.

Zero regrets and happy to have had the experience.

As two tough, rugby playing, dirt bike riding teenagers, it was a little surprising when my best friend initiated a mutual masturbation session with me in our youth. This lead to a couple of years of play which ended up including oral.

Then girlfriends came along and the chapter of comfortable experimenting and enjoying physical pleasure closed.

How common is this to the guys, given our upbringing and all the stigmas and religious views of those times?

Wondering what the ladies views are on cut vs uncut. Does it matter, or make a difference to you?

Would love to observe jonjon.  Keep me posted as to when the repeat will happen 😉

While doing my daily browse today, I was appreciating the level and depth of content of this site.

Then I thought back to the “old days” where all we had was Adam123, which became ClubButterfly.


Anyone else here old enough to remember those sites? 

It's a really intimate thing, so the couple need to decide and express their thoughts as part of the ground rules. 


Referencing from an MFM perspective.

It seems more and more "straight" married men have a curiosity of experiencing some form of MM Play. 

The way I see it, is they have a hard time getting to grips with it due to upbringing and social stigmas that still exists. The most prevalent would be the irrational "fear" of "being gay". 

Whilst FF Bi curiosity has become socially acceptable in many respects, the same is not the case with MM curiosity. 

Many of these men would be quite happy if their spouse voiced her desire to explore her curiosity, but fear even raising their curiosity for fear of judgement, shock or the possibility that she might ask if he is gay. 

As someone who has dabbled twice, my experiences have me seeing myself as predominantly straight with a preference for predominantly straight who is cut and of good proportions.  Interaction for me excludes kissing or penetration. 


I am curious to hear couples and ladies views of their men, or men in general having a Bi curious side.