I used to think that age was just a number until i realised that its really a lot of things.. I agree with what pussinboots was saying when it comes to really really large age gaps. I mean you might find that the chemistry is GREAT you might be able to connect very well sexually and all that but now the problem would most probably come afterwards on both sides. cause neither would enjoy that amazing conversation of how they know each other when introducing each other to their friends and all that. but k guess it all really depends on what youre looking for . Looks like 10 to 15 year age gaps are pretty common.
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TheDude
Over 90 days ago
Straight Black Male, 37
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Hahah Lee, these are real life examples of the saying " never say never ". Okay which isn't really a true saying cause there are certain things that you will say never to and mean it forever,and just to be even more off topic real quick, there are people who say they'll never get married and end up the first to get married! Okay back to the topic, it's clear that not only do certain people Prefer their own race but also there are those who only prefer different races...only.
I think there are a few factors, it goes a lot with how people grew up also (no this is not a shrink moment lol) The people of colour they met growing up, how they saw those people, and the thing is, not being attracted to someone of a different race is not necessarily malicious, not liking them at all because of it is. it can simply just be about attraction and their preference. I dated a girl who when I first met her adamantly said she'd never date a guy of colour ... no offense (she'd say no offense to not offend me) but after a short while that changed and we were together. So I do think with some people it's also about who or what attracts you. They find that they've been attracted to one thing for so long they don't expect to find it in someone else 'different'. Then again (as I said - many factors) some people just don't want to at all that's it, finished just not attracted, and it can work with all races vice versa ... yes I said all.
So best thing? Its better that it's written there for you to see so you don't have to waste your time on that, i mean it's pretty simple in the end you want to make a connection/ shag or whatever you want to call it with someone that'll Want to make one with you, that's what matters
