I'm looking for a regular friend in my area (Pretoria). Sometimes you want some company without the seriousness of a relationship. I dont want to waste anyone's time so I will be upfront and say I'm not into "hit and run" or being with tons of random men. I would like to have a friendly meet up or two first (if there is mutual agreement) and get to know the person a little bit first. This is just my personal preference and what I want, nothing wrong with the way anybody else does it. If you are not wanting to put the effort in for the friendship side then its all good and we won't waste each other's time 😉

I do find the messaging system on this site very user unfriendly and I sometimes miss messages. If I haven't responded within a few days, then feel free to follow up. If you message me and include a face pic you will probably get a response quickly and I will share mine with you too. Guys...this is important, a pic with a mask or sunglasses and cap does not count 😂 you can add a proper pic in your private album, which no one can see unless you share with them direct and when you feel comfortable. This is what I do. 

If you find yourself blocked, don't take it too personally, it will be one of the following: You stay far from me, you have no pictures, you are just not my type, you sent me a disrespectful message. (I am a normal human being, have some tact and engage in normal conversation)

Married men/in a relationship and playing without consent, please don't message me. I'm not interested and you will be blocked. If your relationship status is not specified on your profile then I will make the assumption that you have something to hide. 

Yes I am full of shit 🤷‍♀️ , but once I am comfortable then I am very open minded, quirky and lots of fun.

Please send a message, I will not see you just liking a photo or my profile. Don't send me friend requests. When I log on, I check messages only, not friend requests or profile/photo likes/comments. 

On a last note, safe sex is non-negotiable for me.

Update: I have canceled my subscription and only have limited messages so you may wait a while for a response. Apologies...