Very happily married mid 40s couple looking to add another layer of awesomesness to our fulfilling relationship.

As high school sweethearts we have always felt that something like this would be part of us, although it had no particular label or specific outcome.

We are an adventurous, down to earth friendly couple that value real, deeper friendships and prefer the more sensual side of ethical non monogamy. The aim is to develop a very small circle of safe to be with, discreet and classy (classy is a state of mind) circle of friends to explore our fantasies with. There are absolutely no guarantees nor expectations for anything physical to happen and we will not tolerate any type of pressure. That said if your are willing to slowly explore with us, you might be in for an incredible ride 😉

At this stage we are looking for that one special,good looking, younger (28-34) Afrikaans male to explore with. The following is important us:

Mature, repectful, fun loving, drama free, gentle, deeper person with the utmost respect for our marriage, in good physical shape and impeccable oral and general hygiene 😉. We would also prefer someone that understands this dynamic well and not just looking for a quick way to sex. Average is perfectly fine, in fact preferred bitbplease be shaved or neatly trimmed. Most importantly...be a good human being!

She needs to be treated with the utmost respect and like a goddess as this is what she is used to at home.

We know all of this sound so serious, but it has to be said! One liners and copy and paste messages will not be answered and profiles blocked. Please be open and tell us who you are and what you would like.

For the love of Mary, if you dont have any decent pics...why would we even bother?! We wil not engage with anyone without pics