Hey everyone I am a born and bread Capetonian guy, late thirties. Very new to this lifestyle, I've had the great pleasure of being introduced to it by a well-known couple who have really made things easier for me to understand and whom I have great respect for.

To be honest I think I just came here because I was interested in sex but I've noticed but it's more about the friendships and relationships and good sex is just a value added bonus.