A life-long bachelor, looking for that lovely lady to witness his life, and him witness hers.

While not essential, it would be ideal that she be bi, or bi-curious. A lady that understands that men were never meant to monogamous.

However, having a special someone to come home to, share life with, respect and cherish, is equally desired. I want someone to love.

To be loved in return by an intelligent woman that understands that passion and sensuality, is what fuels romance and mutual fidelity.

She knows how to use the female form to fulfil her desires as well as spice up the relationship with her chosen man.

An open and honest relationship is the only way to happiness. There is no room for deceit and hurt. Respect is the key.

Well-travelled and interesting to be with, this single soul is waiting to merge with a marvellous maiden that wants to really LIVE for the next few decades.

There is so much still to do!

Clean, hygienic, disease and drug-free, non-smoker and social drinker is what she will get. I look forward to the same.

I hope she is out there. In the interim I am available to couples that wish to spice up their lives and fulfil their own desires. I'm versatile.

Likewise, if you are a lady looking for a secret escape from your current unhappiness, I am happy to oblige. I don't fall in love that easy and understand your needs are simply physical. After all, I could use the release too :-)

I'm patient, polite, passionate and a considerate lover. I also understand the meaning of NO and never take things personally.

Above all, I am discrete.

Yes, sex is why we are here, but that's just the bonus part. A good conversation around a braai with mentally stimulating, like-minded people, is just as rewarding.

I'll forego a quick shag any day..... for a long, lingering weekend in the Cedarburg, filled with fun, laughter, sharing caring, flirting and subtle seduction.

It's a bit like fishing. You don't actually have to catch anything, to enjoy the time spent with mother nature :-)

I look forward to meeting with you.....

Busy, busy, busy....and before you know it, you're forty something. So much involved in a project, or slave to a job, that we forget the basic essentials. A team of Husky dogs in freshly dampened snow, tugging towards a wooden home in pristine Alpine air. High above the lows of life... and just below the sky. Are you my shining star? A cozy cuddle next to an open fire; selected wine which slips down to a pair of excited stomachs; making love to a well-tuned body with a healthy mind ....... and not a brainless Barbie doll. You need to be quite flexible, in body and in soul. Skiing, flying, sailing....and some scuba in between. Proficiency not needed, but the willingness to learn. Age is not important, but a few things are a must. The ability to think outside of the clich?d box. No standard package here...

Smoking is for fires. Drugs are for dopes. Besides, both are dying habits. Wine is good for you, but never really cared for total drunkenness. Hangovers are not fun, when making love under a rising sun....

Don't mind if you live on veggies, that's your choice. Cows eat lettuce, I eat both. Food is like sensual sex, you must prepare it well and savour every morsel. That means fast food is out and succulent meals are in. Relationships should be full of mental nutrition, physical chemistry and uncomplicated devotion. Nothing else will do.

Jealousy is poison. Both the taking and the giving. Neither are pleasant feelings. Probably the biggest reason this writer is on his own. Call me a coward, I simply hate the J-emotion. Besides, good dogs don't need leashes. The best bond between two committed friends is an invisible link - woven with mutual respect and intrinsic trust.

"I'd rather have loved and lost, than never having loved at all", should not always apply. Life is complicated enough without diving into committed relationships and leaving kids as collateral damage. Unless I find that special mate with which to explore the ocean of life, this sailor will rather sail alone.....