I have a wonderful, long term partner and because life is short, we decided that we should have some fun with NSA.  He loves the thought of me being with another man and would love to sometimes join in.  He is totally hetrosexual and so am I.  We are both available during the day, with prior notice, and any other time,  and would just like to enjoy ourselves with a few special men.  I enjoy sex and love lingerie.  I love sex in the sun, in the pool, and lingerie sex. We are a happy, fun loving couple.  Extremely clean, discreet, and upmarket.  We have a house in Ballito and we go down there often.  Reliability is very important.  We have found that people are extremely unreliable and it is very frustrating. What could be better than fun times with great people?  Our problem is that my partner loves me to have fun and I have total his absolute blessing on this.  However, this doesn't work both ways and he is not interested in swopping because he doesn't want to play with other women.  He would much rather me have fun, watch me have fun, and occasionally join in.  Aren't I lucky?