Hello. We are an experienced couple seeking "friends with benefits". Our goal is to meet MF couples (or F singles, of course) with whom we would have ongoing sexual fun. With that said, maybe after the first time being naked together we don't click - and that is OK too.

If you only have photos of the female half, we assume we'll just be having sex with her (ha, ha). But seriously, if the mrs is going to have sex with him, we need to see a photo of him at some point - don't you think? Our photos/vids (unless otherwise stated) are recent. We expect to see recent ones from you if we are discussing the possibility of meeting.

We are both tall (only state that because the website info for height is wonky), educated, and well-traveled.

We live up north in a small, rural, conservative town, so appreciate discretion all around. We are up for traveling to Joburg, CT, Durban, etc. So even if you are far from us, please say hi. We are “a real couple”, both on-board with this, and are not in a rush to fuck – i.e., if we seem like two couples that would be compatible, we are happy that it may take several months before we meet. We are not averse to those that are new to “swinging” – we are happy to discuss, and are always respectful of boundaries.  We just ask that BOTH of you are doing this TOGETHER.

We have been in various aspects of the swinger/BDSM lifestyle for over 16 years We have recently moved to RSA from overseas, and are just starting to explore things here. We miss our naughty "friends with benefits" in our home country.

We like to stay active physically and mentally, but are not "Ken and Barbie". We're pretty average for our age, but confident in our bodies and sexuality. We both identify as "bi-ish" in that when we play with others we like everyone to be involved, all touching, etc. If you are a couple that is "straight", we are fine with that since we are very respectful of boundaries and like to clearly communicate when it comes down to sex. We just do not want each MF and MF split off and the guys are scared if they touch – or look at - each other (e.g. 100%/totally straight male-half couples likely wouldn’t be a good match).

Besides having sex with our friends, other things we enjoy include cooking, traveling, animals, home projects, reading/movies.