Hello. We are a couple experienced in the lifestyle looking for "friends with benefits". Well, that is our goal - to eventually meet couples or singles that we would have ongoing fun with. With that said though, maybe after the first time being naked together we don't click - and that is OK too.

We live up north in a small, rural, conservative town, so appreciate discretion all around. We are up for traveling to Joburg, CT, Durban, etc. So even if you are far away, please say hi.

We have been in various aspects of the swinger/BDSM lifestyle for over 15 year. We have recently moved to RSA from overseas, so are just starting to explore things here. We miss our naughty "friends with benefits" in our home country.

We like to stay active physically and mentally, but are not "Ken and Barbie". We're pretty average for our age, but confident in our bodies and sexuality. We both identify as "bi-ish" in that when we play with others we like everyone to be involved, all touching, etc. If you are a couple that is "straight", we are fine with that since we are very respectful of boundaries and like to clearly communicate when it comes down to sex. We just don't want a thing where each MF and MF split off and the guys are scared if they touch each other.

Besides having sex with our friends, other things we enjoy include cooking, traveling, animals, home projects, reading/movies.