Been in the lifestyle for 4 years. Love the company and the friends (with benefits), and also just the friends I've made. Love being around people that leave their issues at home and just get together for fun. Braai, dance, jacuzzi, swim, social. A very good friend once told me: "There are only two types of people in the world, those who swing, and those who want to." I am very comfortable in being the latter. Enjoy well mannered people. Cleanliness a must.