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RiekieDeBeer
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Female, 33
0 km · Bloubergstrand
18+ Only
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About

Hey.. I'm a cute, open minded, sex loving woman. I need someone who can handle my sexual appetite. Who's not afraid to push limits with me. I love to explore and experiment in the bedroom or well anywhere else for that matter.

I have a lot of wild and crazy fantasies I want to fulfil, and maybe so do you... let me know ;)

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I have a volumptuous Friend - very shy,  
- Would like to introduce good guy - interested in Physical relationship , but decent person.

If you interested let me know !! Only Good , Guy with decent motives. But you would have to take your time !! She has a body to DIE for - and very charming personality !!

I told her to do Internet Dating - but she isn't interested - shy and scared people will know !!
I am a bit of an introvert

preferably men that is working. Dont want to care for someone else..

personal hygiene is a MUST!

Love the strip club scene.

first time doing something like this so be gentle hehe

As soon as we lose one sense, our other senses heighten to compensate. Placing a blindfold on one or even both partners ensures that other senses, such as touch and smell, are elevated. Smell is one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs, so prepare to be fresh and clean, and add a touch of a favourite perfume or aftershave or light scented candles and incense to the mix.

Keep Sex exciting by regularly trying something new in the bedroom. Either by using props or toys, such as handcuffs, a vibrator, or watch a soft porn movie together. Read sections of an erotic book to one another or have Sex in places you normally would not. It will not matter how subtle or drastic the change, just doing things a little differently will spice things up.

Talking dirty does not even have to be dirty; just whispering to one another whilst making love can be enough to heighten the connection and desire. Talking through what feels good, what the bodies are craving and whether more or less pressure or movement is welcomed can be a huge turn on for couples. And of course, talking dirty can also add to the eroticism if desired.

Experiment with different lubricants. Each brand will have a slightly different texture to it and will give an added thrill to foreplay and Sex. They are also available in so many different flavours that it is very easy to find one that is highly enjoyable. Some people will enjoy a lot of lubricant, others may prefer very little or none at all. Once again, talk openly about what feels good, smells good and tastes good.

Fantasize together, or alone - whatever works. Sharing fantasies can be highly erotic. Talking through and even acting out something that both partners feel comfortable with and are turned on by is one way to ensure temperatures are raised to their highest seven   three  three  two one zero seven one three  Sustaining eye contact can be hugely erotic for both partners. At first the use of eye contact can make people feel uncomfortable. However, it can be easier to start using it for short periods of time and gradually building it up. Using eye contact increases connection and helps the other person feel attractive. Engaging in eye contact during oral sex is also a huge turn on for many couples. If eye to eye contact is too intense, use mirrors to watch one another from a slight distance or just watch certain parts of the body and eye contact may begin to feel more natural.

Delay pleasure. Do this by raising the vibrations high - almost to orgasm - and then, slow right back down. Yes, slow down or even stop! If this is repeated a few times before eventually reaching orgasm, it can lead to a far more powerful and pleasurable climax.

Sharing a meal together is intimate in itself; however, sharing the right food together can lead to increased desire and more pleasurable Sex. Foods such as chocolate, bananas, oysters, chilli peppers, pomegranates, oatmeal, garlic, ginger and honey can all boost ones sex hormones.

Often the same few positions are repeated again and again. A little research on the Internet or reading from a book on techniques can add inspiration. Or, using the imagination and a bit of trial and error (with lots of laughter) can be a more fun and adventurous way to explore one another. Do not be afraid: if one position is not working for both partners, just move back to something more enjoyable. If new positions are not working, try new places to have Sex. Move out of the bedroom!

Take your time! Completely forget about the destination and enjoy only the journey. Focus on what feels good in each moment. Keep the mind present and notice each touch; each movement; each and every breath; and, feel how much pressure is being used with each body part. Pay particular attention to how your bodies feel, pressed together naked and filled with desire. Listen to everything that the other body is saying: how it moves; what is pleasurable; when to slow down or speed up; or which pace is more satisfying. Keep nudging your mind back to the present. Take away all pressure of orgasm, leaving only the responsibility to enjoy each other - fully naked, intimately connected and entirely engaged.

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One of the sexiest things we can do for a passionate sex life is to build confidence. And the good thing about this, is that it can happen immediately. If it helps, adjust the lighting to a low setting or use candles. Play music in the background choosing beats with a slow and deep rhythm. Then try a few mantras and repeat them with conviction: I am gorgeous/beautiful/handsome; I am desirable; I am passionate; I love my body and enjoy how it feels; I am seductive. Find what works and repeat it until any negative thoughts diminish. Any time low confidence re-appears, drown it out with positive mantras until they sink in. Passion is all in the mind!

When we are engaged not only physically, but also emotionally, during Sex, we reach our highest potential for pleasure. Recognizing that Sex is an act involving our entire mind, body and soul, ups our capacity to achieve a sexual experience with a mind-blowing expression.

DON'T STOP UNTIL YOUR LEGS ARE SHAKING AND THE NEIGHBOURS KNOW YOUR NAMES!!!

Interests

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Seeking

Age: 18 - 100
Distance: 500 km