I'm still new to the lifestyle, looking for my first experience - I suppose im actually completely new based on my experience. Would like to get to know people and see where that leads if we hit it off.

I'm here to explore the fantasies (and have some fun) thats been living in my head rent free for years. The things I've never acted on.

There must be a level of chemistry otherwise it won't be particularly fun... then it's just like getting your car serviced.

A little more about me, I'm a bit of an odd ball, some times the ADHD gets the best of me. I prefer engaging conversations because there's more than just the wham-bam sometimes. You have to play with the mind.

I'd really like to try all the kamasutra positions at some point and would absolutely enjoy having someone to take alone to a tantric massage session (There's a course I'd like to do, but when you're single like me, it's not easy to find someone to join you on these random adventures)

Discretion is an absolute necessity for me, so i'd appreciate the same. I'd prefer that we chat here or via email first before possibly moving to a different platform.

When it comes to contacting or being contacted, I have contacted people on here before but I would prefer to be contacted by single females or couples. That way i don't feel like I'm overstepping or coming across as desperate. It also allows people to decide for themselves based on my profile. Having said this, there may still be the occasion where I do contact people with interesting profiles as I do also want to make friends and maybe go for coffee and things. If I liked your profile it means I'm interested but don't want to overstep as mentioned before. If you like my profile, please do drop a message or a wink or even just an emoji to get things going.

I'm initially a very quiet person but when we get to know each other I become less quiet. I will always value being a gentleman and treating everyone with respect and I'd appreciate the same in return. There's a time and place for everything. Gentleman in the streets but a Dom in the sheets.

As is the law of the land. You do not have my permission to save, share or otherwise use any if the media saved to my profile or on the SH server for private use without my prior written consent.