...*updated 2024/08*

* NEXT TRIP....
TBA
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do travel... 
...also often travel to (try guess) and others
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Dominance is who I am, it's not a label I select from a drop-down menu, nor do I follow any narrative of how a "true Dom" should behave.  Dominance is relative to the submissive and I prefer to learn what fire burns inside. What needs fuel and whatnot? 

I am honest from the get-go, I have intelligence, integrity and respect boundaries, but I will push you and help you grow.  There isn't much I haven't tried, I relish new connections and experiences.

Calm, controlled, measured... 
All important traits.

Let's chat!

*TAKE NOTE**
(to quote someone who I believe I share kin with)
"there are very few accomplished, trustable, examples in the community of strong Dominants/Masters"
I am who I am, because I am ME
no BS, open, honest
yes you can learn to be like a master or a dom but,
you'll know the difference once you meet a Master and a Dom
everyone else is simply tops and bottoms
* I am married, Mrs is a Vicen & Bi-curious and I'm here with her full knowing and encouragement
  I mainly play alone but if she is interested and if it's mutual then she may join.
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 . . . . . . . . . . REVIEWS... . . . . . . . . . .  ( new to old) 
the REVIEWS below are not requested, 
but it does make for a nice reference (and always a lovely honour that is always hugely appreciated)*
**THANK YOU** (bow it hat)
and..
message me, talk to me, ask me...
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Kind Sir
He is the epitome of a Dom/Gentleman hybrid and so much more. I feel so at ease to be myself with him and quite uncharacteristically, I thoroughly enjoy surrendering my pleasure to him. He knows how to take it to the next level. I've never experienced pleasure like that which I have had with this fine Sir. There is no comparison, he's one of a kind.
- I thank you, very very much. Very much enjoyable times

*Sir David**
Occasionally a sub sees a profile on ( Removed by Admin ) which has an immediate effect on her. Sir David’s profile was one of them. I was instantly drawn to him, the masochist in me recognising the Sadist that he is.
I very rarely call a Dom Sir, if we are not in play, yet with Sir David, I just can not help myself, even though he is not my Dom. Without even trying, he commands respect, that is very rare.
However, there is something about Sir David that is unique. In our lifestyle the subs need to take special care, there are many fakes who are only there to take the trust given to them and miss use it to their own advantage. After chatting to him for a short while, one just knows that he is the real deal, and not here to play games.
Sir David has proven time and time again, what a true Dom is. Even though I have not yet met him, or played with him, I feel this total need to submit to him in every way. I have not been the easiest person to deal with, yet he has never once gotten angry, or shown anything but kindness, and patience with me. I had barriers built up, due to past experiences, and one by one Sir David broke them down, without me even noticing it. 
Not sure if he knows this, but I am actually changing my viewpoints on a lot of things due to him, which in my book is a good thing.
Sir David has this unique way of making a sub feel that they are worth something, that he WANTS to get to know them, he listens to everything, and forgets nothing, much to my dismay lol.
Sir David has given me the privilege of “Considering” to be my Dom, and for that I truly feel special. I look forward to the day that I will be at his Sadistic mercy.
- Thank you very much* 

...How does one write a review for a Sir like Sir David.
For the beginning, he has put his sub at ease making her feel special, needed and wanted. The beginning started with a brat needing to be put back in her place. Sir knew exactly what she needed when she needed it. He has noting but the patience of a saint as her schedule is nothing short of crazy. He waited patiently in the wings, watching and waiting for the right time when she needed him most to step up and be the dom she needed without having to ask. Which shows the true nature of an experienced and wisedom. Their first play was nothing short of magical. He went slow and guided her, pushed her just a little when needed and made sure she was looked after before, during and after play. Even days after, still asking if she was coping. Sir has always made time to talk, chat, laugh and listen to his sub, when she needed that shoulder to lean on. I have had the privilege of being able to play with Sir and have had the honour of being called his. He has taken me under his wing and guided me subtle ways I didnt know I needed. It has been an honour and a privilege of being able to know and play with Sir and Master. A title
he has definitely earned 
- I thank you, kind words *

...Sir David’s Review...
It's been a real pleasure to get to know Sir David. Tall, Slim, beautiful eyes, well he’s hot. Not normally strict, but very friendly and always smiling and laughing. So great qualities for a dominant man. Very easy to talk to too. Quite a busy, independent and a strong man, another great quality. But no matter how busy he is, he always manages to text me as much as he can. Which makes me happy, because I can be quite a handful, since I love attention. Sir David doesn't seem to mind that at all. He is such a sweet soul. Within a few days of chatting with him, I began to feel like I've known him for a very long time, because of his kindness, openness and honesty, another list of good qualities. His great qualities are endless. I discover a new one, each day I talk to him. Yes, he is perfect. And, a perfectionist, as he can use his strong hands to make new toys. Some of which he's been wanting to try on me from the day we started talking. He really does make great toys, not only is he good at making toys, but he's also good at improvising too. He can turn anything around him into a useful BDSM tool/toy. Such an intelligent and creative man Sir David is. A few days into chatting with him I finally had a pleasure of meeting him in person. He was busy but still managed to try and meet up with me. I was grateful for that and still am. Sir David never makes empty promises, when he makes one, he makes sure it gets fulfilled. Well isn't that another great quality again? Speaking of him keeping his word, I must mention his amazingly perfect memory! Yes, he's got a memory of an elephant. I didn't really believe it when he first mentioned that to me, but now I've seen it. So, my bratty ways never go until noticed. Yes, Sir David remembers everything I do out of battiness. He's forever calm and super polite, I secretly suspect that he's got some British genes in him. He doesn't abuse his right of being a dominant/master. He always uses "please" and "thank you" where there's a need. Sometimes that really makes me embarrassed, because I'm most likely always bratty. He may be all those good things but, when he says something. He really means it, and it really must be done. If not so, there will be consequences. Yes, he really knows how to push back. Sadistic, yes. But also have a daddy side. And I totally love everything about him. From face slapping, spanking, throat fucking, cunt fucking, punishing a brat and disciplining it. With all that said, I can conclude with mentioning that he is a very great play partner, and he never ignores the safe word. Sir David is a 10/10.

...a Daddy/Dom/Master review...
I haven’t actually had the pleasure of meeting David in person yet but we’ve been talking since mid April. I’m currently making plans to trek 2000km down South to visit him. He’s worth it and I’m genuinely looking forward to meeting him in person. He is a rare breed of Daddy, Dom and Master and balances all aspects well. David treats BDSM with the severity it deserves. He, more than anyone else I’ve encountered on the scene, understands the toll it can take on a soul. With that being said, he maintains a level of light heartedness in our conversations which keeps things fun. I find him really attractive; he is good looking with stern, deep eyes. Has a sexy body and, oh my word, that grey hair does things to me! He is exceptionally hard working but will still take the time out of his busy day to talk to me. On top of being a hard worker, he can build things. So you know he’s good with his hands and with the proper motivation I can see him making exciting, useful BDSM furniture. He is intelligent and, for me, one of his best qualities is his over active imagination. Story time where he tells me about various scenes we will act out makes my pussy tingle and leaves me dripping wet. David is meticulous and pays attention to detail that most people simply over look. He is fair but strict. He has the memory of an elephant so best believe that you won’t be getting away with anything because he remembers everything. All in all, any submissive would be extremely fortunate to have a man like David as a triple threat (Daddy/Dom/Master) in her life. He comes highly, highly recommended. You certainly won’t regret any conversation you have with him.
* i thank you, you honour me*
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Always very honoured by every review, thank you.

So...
IF YOU ARE STILL READING HERE IS SOME LAST INFO...
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**My BDSM types
Sadist, Dominant, Degrader, Master, Experimentalist, Primal (Hunter), Rigger, Daddy, Owner, Voyeur, Brat tamer, Non-monogamist, Exhibitionist
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**...play with you soon my lovely ;-)**

Thank you for reading this far
Hope to chat sooooon