Every Friday evening (& sometimes Saturdays as well) I meet up with a circle of really awesome single friends at a venue northwest of Johannesburg, where there is a live cover band playing (love live bands having myself been a drummer/percussionist for many bands). We get on the dancefloor and stay on until the band stops playing. We all meet occasionally at somebody's house for a get together. But unfortunately...….. they are all vanilla's. Getting to sleep with the some of the ladies is not a problem at all except, an expected serious relationship is the cost of the ticket. Been divorced three times (3 years, 20 years & 10 years respectively) so, not looking to go there again. Would like to become part of a circle of good likeminded friends as I have with my vanilla friends, but for N.S.A. fun exploration and adventurous sex. I love public nudity (with likeminded people). I am originally from the Cape, so was a regular at Sandy Bay. Sex & Drugs & Rock n' Roll has always been major experimental interests for me. The only one of the three I dropped was the drugs when I was still in my twenties. So many fantasies, thoughts and fetishes. So little time.