Needless to say, this is a “very” sensitive area. I believe that somewhere between love and ambivalence lies a very happy, healthy, “sexy” medium that can only be called lust. It’s ok to lust after someone other than your spouse. This is what drives the whole lifestyle experience because if you didn’t feel “lust” for a person, you most likely wouldn’t do anything with them. Every one of us in this lifestyle is here to feed our lust, let’s have fun and become great friends to feed our lust to live our dreams.