I am a married, self employed professional who is very sensual, sexual and erotic. We have travelled through SA and surrounds extensively both in 4x4's and on motorcycles. At the age of 53 I am becoming more sensual and erotic and would like to explore this with other partners. My wife is very supportive of this and is in fact the driving force in getting my profile listed. Although she will not actively participate she gets her excitement knowing that I am interacting with others and may participate, in one way or another, given my experiences. I would appreciate contact on my mail box for an initial chat, maybe meet for a coffee or glass of wine. Should the initial contact be such that we are both comfortable being friends then let's be friends. My ideal would be to have friends who can be at arms length yet can be intimate. Does this make sense?