UPDATE - Essentially, and as impossible as it may sound, I really want a buddy who identifies and lives as hetro, but wants to indulge in the guy side, very discreetly. I am new to the area (Noordhoek) and I am hoping to meet up with a discreet guy from my area or surrounds who considers himself straight but open to play with a guy ...

I have an allergy aggravated by men who use the term "yummy"

I am active, and go to gym