Well - We are NEW to this lifestyle. We are married and have talked about having some fun with like-minded, married couples, for some time. At the moment we are not looking to exchange sex with other couples, we want to get to know this "world", small bits at a time. We want to make friends and then have fun, if and when the time is right. We are business owners that needs to de-stress from time to time. Braai'ing, social drinking, and fun-loving couple that wants to explore a new avenue. I am a bit overweight - my husband says "plump'ish" but loves it just the same. We are a hygiene conscious couple, would like to meet friends and then talk about benefits. We are not entertaining inter-racial friendships/swinging at the moment. Hope this does not offend anyone, but as we are real new to this we would just want to settle down and get to know an avenue at a time.