Looking to meet ladies, of all ages who share my interest in fetishes and not just vanilla life.

This offers you the opportunity to explore that deep dark side, most of us keep suppressed and hidden from, most sadly ourselves...

Being a bdsm lifestyler! means I'm especially interested in spanking, bondage roleplay, power exchange and a myriad of things the main stream regard as !

Those who know and understand the lifestyle are welcome, but should your interest just be piqued and you have no experience, would still love to hear from you!

Remember this lifestyle is all about respect, trust and consent, nothing kinky happens without your FULL agreement and understanding!

And very importantly sex does NOT need be a prerequisite for most BDSM plays, as portrayed in " Fifty shades..." !!!