Please allow me  time to clean and arrange my profile before expecting any replies. If you've happened to message me over the past few month there is a chance I didn't read your mail, (sorry) mass deleting. Please write me again if your still interested.

I'm happily married and my husband is aware of this profile. This remains MY profile and I can play alone unless we decide differently with all parties involved. For now I am playing on my own. Not currently looking for couple meets, and I'd prefer to do more in the future with my husband but for now just alone with guys or girls.

I'm a 36 years old redhead female. I like hiking, yoga, dancing, surfing and so much more. I'm self-employed and independent. I like chatting with guys before we meet to see if we have compatibility and if your able to turn me on with words, and with your mind. If you can't, I doubt we'll meet. Also I'm flattered that some are trying to chat to me in Afrikaans... Please guys I can't speak the language and I'd have to ask my husband to translate it for me..."Can you see how that might be a little awkward?"

I'm not a small, petite girl but I do stay in shape and I won't break easily. If I was a wine I'd be a red, full body with a slightly nutty finish.

I'm sexually very submissive and like it when a guy or lady takes control and has their way with me. So bulls and dominant, confident guys, that might like to see a woman go from shy lady to insatiable fucktoy: I'm your girl. I'm also into role playing and living out my minds dirty fantasies. I prefer older guys with confidence and experience. If your new to swinging, shy or unsure about what you want: I'm not your girl. I'm unlikely to reply to one-liner mails and winks but more likely to reply to well written mails telling me what their looking for and why they decided to mail me. Being a verified and/or Gold member on SH will also make me feel more inclined to reply (sorry so many time wasters and chancers, a girl needs to be careful).

I love rough sex, being choked and degraded by someone I can trust, plus I love taking it up my tight married ass. All I ask is that you be honest and not afraid that I'll be offended (I WONT BE) by something you say. You don't need to treat me like a lady in bed and I'd much prefer to be pounded like a porn star (and talked to, the same way!) 

FYI: I AM AWAY AT THE MOMENT AND NOT ABLE TO MESSAGE REGULARLY.