I'm an African man and I have always full of fantasies in my head. I used to stay in Durban a few years ago and that's when i came across the online dating sites (including SH). Facing reality, being a single male is not a great feat around these circles, but I've always posted and responded to ads. One day I posted an ad based on location, got a response from a single mixed lady. She seemed too calm in her responses and...