It is not just about reading a profile or advert. It is about understanding what is being said and respecting what the individual or couple wants.

"We prefer people aged between x and y years old", the someone way out of the desired range answers. "Please do not send unsolicited picrures", then you are flooded with one eyed monsters. Please meet with us before sending friend requests.....all of a sudden you are the most popular profile one the site. Being on a limited profile you must make the call on spending one of your messages to decline the offer you already made clear you don't want, or trying to actually find someone that fits you. Unfortunately, ignoring or blocking those irksome individuals will inevitably lead to being branded as fake or uptight by those same individuals who cannot respect your preferences.

You can only shake your head at such arrogant logic....