We are a Polyamorous vanilla couple. We usually play separately, obviously with complete consent and knowledge.

We like to actually have a friendship / relationship with people. Hook-ups are fine for clubs, but out here in the world it takes time to build some trust. And let's face it the sex is better when there's trust.

So a picture of your penis and a three word sexual come-on will get you is flea in your ear. 

She’s interested in a long-term serious boyfriend to be honest. Failing which, a "stable" of 3-5 regular guys in a FWB arrangement. Who have the time and emotional maturity to actually be a proper friend. First friend. Then benefit. 

He has a regular girlfriend who is not interested in the lifestyle. He is happy to be another M in a MM(M)F gangbang but it’s not a must. She is straight. 

We don't travel far. We are in the Randburg/Linden area. We have small kids so things need to be planned in advance.  

Please, if you are a man, we don't want to hear from you. We will do our own browsing thank you. 

If you are a man and you contact us, it displays lack of respect for our clearly stated boundaries. So why would we want to meet you? Don't be a dick. Or show us your dick. It’s Unimaginative and off-putting.  

And not interested in guys playing without their partners' knowledge or in a DADT setup. Not. Interested. Too much drama. 

All clear? Good!