I’m soon moving to Langebaan and hoping to hook up with guys & couples for discreet playtimes. Beaches, outdoors. And are there any known hookup places?
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LoneRanger
1 week ago
Bi-curious White/Caucasian Male, 63
0 km · Mpumalanga
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Quote by kawaicouple
I agree with everyone's comment above.....
But wanted to know: why you were booking a hotel room in the first place? Your place not good enough??
I'm not sure bout other people but a neutral place is prefered. Some people get weird.
In answer to a few queries like the above, the main reason was that I had my elderly Mum visiting over the December holidays, so my home was not mine alone! But, secondly, my experience is that many ladies do prefer the security of meeting in a public place, particularly for the first encounter. A hotel thus offers a clean, discreet and secure meeting place...albeit an expensive mistake when the supposed playmate does not pitch up!
Quote by Stamina
I am probably gonna get for this post but what the hell... Please ladies, no offense intended here...
Females tend to be very curious - seldom serious. I think that this girl needed her "cheat" fantasy fulfilled. She met you for a drink to test the water. Then agreed to the hotel meet. Got cold feet when the time came and gave the excuse of a meeting. I don't think she is a scammer or such, but just did not have the guts to go through with it. She did however get her kicks out of the attempt.
If had R10 for every girl here that has told me how horny she is and what all she plans to to do to me, then then the communication abruptly ends at the point of planning an actual meet - I would be a millionaire!!! I think many females want to occasionally act a bit slutty but don't have the guts to take the plunge.
SH needs a "Like" button, similar to Facebook. Here's a "Like" anyway... ;-)
Quote by hornylibra
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
Don't book the room until she arrives??
That's the best advice...and yes, what I'd decided myself!
Met a "lady" on here, one half of a supposed couple. met for a drink, then subsequently she contacted me, "I'm so hot for you", wanting to meet for sex. She decided she'd prefer it "in a hotel the first time" so, sucker that I am, I went off, booked a room, paid for it, SMS'd her the room number, got a reply "I'm on my way." I waited. And waited. Tried to call her - call cut off. Sent another SMS, "Where are you?" Nada. Then eventually a reply, "Sorry, I have a meeting at 3pm, I was ready for you at 2, can't make it anymore. I will reimburse you for the hotel." Ja, right! next she will ask for my bank account details...ha ha ha. No, she's not Nigerian either...
What are we supposed to do about these costly fakers? Should I name and shame her profile?
I once worked with this very hot chick back in the good old days at Scope magazine. One afternoon we got it off in the toilets but what made it kinkiest - for both of us - was that we knew all the other guys in the office knew what was happening only a few metres away from where they sat at their desks. Nobody tried to join us though...which might have been a tight fit in the loo!
Yes for sure, I'd love to share my partner and watch her being pleasured...and then be able to join in afterwards. I'm sure this is a fantasy of many couples, or the male side at least, but too many of them are too afraid to take the fantasy to the next level. I guess that's why fantasies remain fantasies for most people.
