** Thanks but we really are NOT looking for single males. Please do not contact us if you are a single male. **

We are straight couple. 50+ years old. White. English speaking South African. Middle class. With a job, car, house, family, kids, and home loan. We are intelligent, professional people, that value company, honesty, integrity, conversation, and friendships. Light drinkers, non smokers, and don't do drugs.

The some total of our joint swinging experience is zero. The some total of our knowledge about swinging is what you could read on the internet.

Actually I'm not sure I could sleep with somebody else, with or without my partner. My partner doesn't really want to sleep with anybody else: Which makes this all a bit pointless, except: We are both turned on by nudity. And being naked in the company of another couple rates mind blowing at this point. Having sex in the same room as another couple, perhaps taking pictures would be considered very very erotic for us. Amp that up to having sex where we can see whats going on is as far as we can even fantasise for now.

So you would have to be a couple, in a similar position. Safety is very important, even though I don't see any risky activities anyway. I figure it may take a while for us to get started and get our collective heads around this, so if you are in a hurry look elsewhere. I figure this is a journey, so if you are too far ahead of us or behind best leave it. I figure that it may take some careful communication to get four people on the same page, so if this would be too much effort look elsewhere.

** Thanks but we really are NOT looking for single males. Please do not contact us if you are a single male. **