Hi naughty cummunity

We'll leave our longer profile up (a bit further down). We'll also get some thoughts out via our wall/post updates if you'd want to engage there. The short of it follows:

We'd love to meet the right kind of people for us! 😇 (whether playing or not).

You'll quickly see from our profile whether we're more or less what you're after. But now, please people... put us in a position to actually see from your profile whether you might be a good fit otherwise we're not likely to respond.

We're really here initially just for the BASICS which means

• we can commit to good open and naughty conversations after we've met in person (we're Afrikaans but suppose that won't matter at some point 😋);

• sticking to our own partners (although a bit more is not excluded, no promises made);

• great character friend quality couples and similar ladies (preferably new, maybe novice couples). We get it. You might say no pressure but there's always going to be some pressure with more experienced folks). Also open to ladies wanting to explore their bi-side in which case gent/s assist as needed or not at all. We can suss out the detail beforehand. If this is the goal (bi-curious exploration) we'd like to know as soon as possible.

• selecting within our body type (slim to athletic, please body photos of all involved to confirm) Note that closeups or photos of when lying down can be misleading) / We wish we could give leeway but it's clear people who say they're muscular are actually medium 😕, and many who indicate medium, well.... (There is one exception*)

• around our age (up to around 40s - some leeway is in order / If she is younger and him much older then we might still meet but on our end, wifey will only be interested in bi-action, a threesome, or own partner play.

• own race;

• no single gents at present,

*The only exception to body type is if we meet with own-partner play in mind

We're admittedly over-cautious. So quite STI conscious and a no-pressure environment for new couples or exploring ladies.

We like to think of ourselves as a couple that is understanding, down to earth, solid in our relationship, and an awesome couple with whom to consider and explore early experiences.

Basics 😘 could entail:

• Getting naked together, playing together with own partners, sex together while on a picnic, dining without panties and dirty talk, getting each other horny by showing each other our private collections, introducing toys:

• We can take your videos for you (your phone) or assist in different ways;

• From there possibly any safe form of touching (massage and other), smelling, fondling and so on in the realm of soft play (possibly through games or coming up with our own games to facilitate and explore);

• For us there really is great excitement even long before partner sharing, which is not excluded possibly for later. This is the only time we can experience this stage and we don't mind loitering in the sexual awakening and building trust.

• Entice us with what you suggest in terms of the basics?

Preferably before we meet in person we'd appreciate to sense whether there might be chemistry. Looks go a long way towards that. And in most cases sharing face pics with us pretty much immediately will let you know where we stand.

We have great respect for the courage people show in sharing face pics with us. It makes it so much easier and moves the process along quickly. We will then happily share face pics if we feel there could be something and under the condition that:

• We hope to establish that you indeed fall roughly in our description of what we are looking for (that you are the kind of person or couple that we wouldn't mind becoming friends with over time, who we can trust with privacy, consent, sharing our bodies).

• That your profile portrays you as genuine, decent people who are secure in their relationship (Unless you are a single lady, you should actually be in a committed/secure relationship). Caring for your partner and maintaining your relationship, your health and wellbeing are crucial for all involved.

We are kind of jealous of those who are in a position to just put everything out there (face pics) and enjoy a curated selection of what 'cums' their way 😀 We feel we can't do that unless there really is potential. So if we share, we're almost there.

Pop us a message. Inbox managed by him except perhaps for ladies who want to chat with her with the aim of exploring bi-curiosity. REMOVED BY ADMIN.

Who knows. Happy days ahead.

John & Nadine, for now 😘

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How awesome are you to actually read the longer profile since we've taken great care in writing it.

Similarly, your profile (construing sentences and presentation) will nudge us along if you hope to meet. True, you don't need a spell checker to f*&K (or does one) but it should at least be apparent that you don't think a thesaurus is a kind of dinosaur.

Hubby does the bulk of filtering and communication, and happy to respond to those who fit the profile and with a view of our current interests (As described in 'Priority in seeking'). We're not likely to respond to single guys who reach out.

We're looking at a causation female (single strait or bi, or bi-curious female - perhaps a hotwife), or the right kind of couple/s that we can meet with over time.

• Looking at, if women: Age range from being capable-of-legal-consent to 48ish  |  Slim to athletic (maybe muscular so long as hubby need not be afraid of a jiujitsu choke, or at least someone who will listen to a tap-out .

• Looking at, male (only as part of couple): Body type up to medium. But 'medium' will be considered on a case by case basis. 

Get to know us

We're an Afrikaans attractive (if we might say so ourselves , clean and classy lifestyle-curious couple exploring the possibilists of meeting others with the same set of relational and selective standards. 

We're balanced.

We're into each other big time.

Taking things slowly or not at all so not acting on all stated interests right from the start. What we're 'seeking' (the kind of activities) will likely expand with time (but see below for our tentative thoughts).

We are professional people, have kids, intelligent and articulate (a combo of street smart and highly educated), witty or at times quirky.

Not into partying, booze, drugs, or smoking.

Authentic and can hold conversations. Deep talk don't scare us.

Of course we don't have to be exactly alike, so don't decide to run off just yet. But physical attributes we seek above (and below) are not likely compromised.

How we meet

Before any action: At least meet-and-greet (i.e., initial short video chat if photos aren't available, or, if photos are available or sent first and we both feel excited to continue we can meet for coffee (public or otherwise), or meet at events/parties intended for the purpose of meeting which we might even arrange ourselves discreetly.

Preferably we'd want see face photos before meeting (we'll also supply and send a link). But it will just make it so much easier/quicker if you already include a link to face photos when reaching out. Penises, vaginas... we've all seen much of that. Rather face and body pics will work for us initially.

Yes, we're newbies. But we're also very real. We don't mind stayng newbies if we don't absolutely find what we're looking for.

As newbies we'd want your views on a number of questions, like on managing STI's and the risk of pregnancy.

These are serious considerations for us. If you simply find it kinky to to fuck indiscriminately without proper consideration of the aforementioned then we're not your couple.

We see things like "We don't have a lot rules" All games have rules otherwise people get hurt unnecessarily. However, we like to keep safe and we hope you feel the same.

Important considerations: 

• You have to have consent from your significant other (cheaters not welcome);

• Be solid with your partner since you're relationship is important to us (if you have a partner). Why? You're deepest emotional connection should not be with one of us  Obvious, not?) And hence, we don't go solo (for sex, coffee, pen pals ;

• We agree and keep to whatever we discuss and expand only if everyone is doing swell.

• Values are still important to us (good ol' family values);

• We're Caucasian (no interracial partners);

• We are likely to only respond where 'likes' 'messages' etc. fits our stated preferences;

• Neither of us smoke (She stopped some time ago and can't be much around smoke in social settings. For him smoking is simply a considerable turn-off. We don't exclude that in our searches but unfortunately if you know that it is going to be a problem for you not to smoke when meeting, then that won't work for any of us. The only exception though is for occasional smokers where they can either refrain or instances where we'll be sticking fully to our own partners.

• How kinky would making videos be - really hot - but unfortunately we can't agree to that unless perhaps no faces are included.

Priority in seeking

What we're seeking:

1. Initial preference to ladies (single or hotwife): We would initially prefer to connect with a lady (either single or the 'hotwife' where hubby, if present - and understandably so - is not taking part, maybe on the next round). While not identifying as bi, wify is intent on having hubby's fantasy come true and for all intents and purposes bi-curious. So in this scenario the focus of pleasure will be on all three (unless of course you don't want to explore the bi part but wify will still be part of pleasuring her man).

2. Couples with trusting characters and being down to earth /  Who are not pushy not cocky (Oh, look a pun? ) especially so with initial meetup or play. In a world full of arrogance clit caress and cock pics, it is rather being down to earth that stands out. 

3. Note to single guys. Ouch you're getting a bad rap. Unfortunately we're not currently looking for you and it's daunting to respond to single guys if we're not going there at this stage, but good luck in any case.

4. Activities: Currently, as we'll discuss until everyone is comfortable, we're looking at own partner play scenarios, nudity, voyearism, exhibitionism and the like if it is then clear to us that there is potential, trust, character and so on then soft swing, oral sex, potentially same room swapping.

Turn off's or questionable

About you:

We savor the moment with a glass of wine or whisky but it is typically the loud or pushy type that overindulge on booze which are the ones we want to avoid. That's not us and if playtime is characterised by shots and half or completely drunk dudes and dames then we'll walk along swiftly. Can we do this much more to the sober side - which, mind you, is necessary for consenting adults. Even though it's a 'party' of sorts and we're not much into that, we might check out the public swinger events at some point. (Wink newbie couples, let's attend together without any expectations or even just meeting up for a braai, dinner, public coffee/lunch). 

Doing drugs? Enjoy the trip but you won't see us somewhere in the clouds.

We don't usually swear but there are contexts where some words and actions seem to go well together. ;-) However, if you generally can't say a sentence without getting stuck at f@uk then well...

You don't have to go out of your way to tease, be clingy or flirtatious when we meet. We know what we're here for and at the right time we'll all play.

For initial play we're not into 'dom' or aggressive fantasies. So grabbing, pulling wifey... no-no even if at least initially.

About us:

Okay so we get you might also be turned off by stuff:

We really have nothing out of the ordinary you need to worry about. What you see on our profile is really what you get. What you don't see is that hubby sometimes grow a beard, mainly to please wifey. That comes and goes. At the moment, no beard, but you can say what you prefer.

All the bits and pieces are where they should be and in decent average proportions.

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You're still here?! 

One last really important thing, though obvious, to keep things enjoyable to all of us.

Take stuff from this profile in any form, or bring us into disrepute (breaking anonymity, not minding identifiability, the principle of non-maleficence (yup, that's a word) etc. and you're screwed - not in a good kind of way.  We'd like to keep our private and public lives separate and if you want to spoil the fun, the line between earth and hell for you just got erased.