Quote by Freshman

The problem is not people NOT attending. The problem is confirming and not letting the host know that they can't make any more or have lost interest.

Welcome to my world of arranging parties and get togethers for over 10 years

Quote by Us2play

Hi

I'm in CT soon and would like if anyone knows about a B&B there swingers normally meet or sleeping over

Why not just rent and AirBnB ? There will be no rules in terms of what you can do there or not !

Thanks you for all the interesting views on this 

PIB- I have met you a long time ago ... must be closed to 10 years by now and have always respected your views as an experienced person that have seen it all - I guess there is nothing wrong with browsing !

Karoocpl - I think many people press the "like" button as a pure courtesy way of expressing their  upbringing .... people are taught to say thank you when they grow up so I do not see it as making a pest of themselves other to what I mention here 

Hi there Farsin

Your comment makes perfectly sense ....

In your case I looked back at your profile as well ..... 

If I look at a profile ... and see/read that they are not interested in single guys, then I will never attempt any form of dialogue as it shows that the profile is not read - I can imagine that it must be one of the most frustrating things to get any form of communication from someone that does not have the ability to read a profile all the way to the end. 

I am also sure that you have so many unsolicited mails/pictures as well - which is why so many single guy profiles are the blocked

It is however a stigma that is attached to the "good" single guys that all single guys are bad .... and sadly it puts the rest of the guys at the bitter of of the "food chain"

Be safe !

So, I have been seeing this happen a lot ... and I really do not know if that had been discussed before ....

The question / statement is simple .. but I am sure that the answer will vary 

I am a single guy and so many times I have people looking at my profile ... I then go back to have a look at their profile and their needs are stated in bold letters and in capital letters:  

"WE ARE NOT INTERESTED IN SINGLE MEN AT ALL"

If you are a couple and you do this ... please explain your thoughts behind this

Some of the answers I have seen before include but is not limited to the following:

We look at your profile  as the profile picture attracted out attention

We sometimes are interested in single guys but we do not put it on our profile as we get inundated with requests 

At our discretion we will invite single guys but do not want to even put it pout there

Your thoughts?