We are a loving couple who enjoy an amazing open and explorative sex life and we have chosen to add a consensual non monogamous dimension to our lives, She is an extraordinary, unconventional, sapiosexual adventurer with much to explore, experience and enjoy. Whilst I (husband) shall remain monogamous, Kitty shall seek pleasure with others. As a wife and mother with a very full and active life - she seeks someone exceptional who will add a new dimension to her life - filled with joy, a sense of adventure and sexual pleasure. Understand that she has many other commitments required of her. She states that her life is blessed and compliments me as her amazing husband who respects and reveres her as his Goddess and encourages her to explore and seek pleasure with whomever she chooses. .. I am somewhat older than her, and fully aware and supportive of this ad, and will always be part of whatever might result here from. My presence comforts her, enables her to tease me and adds significantly to her pleasure. Furthermore - my recent retirement frees up my time enabling me to take over many domestic and other chores - freeing up her time to add this new adventure to her life.

About Her Ideal Match

We are aware that we are looking for the needle in the haystack - but the benefits of finding him shall surely make the difficult and time-consuming search worthwhile. You should be educated, well read with a sense of humor and the ability to attract her with eloquent, articulate and imaginative words. Yet also an innate sexual imagination to add sexting to your communication skills. Our meeting shall depend largely on your attitude and ability to draw her in with written words rather than your physical appearance.
Once the connection is made, you should be prepared to meet so that she can feel an attraction and be comfortable in your company. Hopefully this can then lead to sexual activities for our mutual pleasure.
Understand that this relationship shall be limited and discreet. I shall always witness your liaisons as her protector and soul mate. Physically - she prefers her partner to be hygienic, healthy, tall yet slim, able to last and ensure her pleasure - and a huge plus would be the ability to give a great massage - specially her feet! We cannot host and need to be very discreet. Regular travelers to Cape Town are also welcome to contact us - however we are not looking for a one night stand - ideally we seek a more long term arrangement with discretion, honesty, open communication and trust as its foundation, and fun, excitement and pleasure as our motivation.